tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post8391681366719300307..comments2024-03-29T03:27:19.190-04:00Comments on Ask And Ye Shall Receive: If there's one thing I can't stand about sleeping with women, it's all the fucking mind-reading*Love Biteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09560398644345169431noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-88588503171895463132009-02-16T17:59:00.000-05:002009-02-16T17:59:00.000-05:00I'm just gonna steeeeep over all the boobies and a...I'm just gonna steeeeep over all the boobies and assholes and whatever and talk about something else for a minute...<BR/><BR/>First, I love Honey's blog too even though I don't read it as much as I should.<BR/><BR/>Second, I can really appreciate the debate about anonymity, especially concerning the friends-as-readers issue. Though my blogging has fallen off greatly this past year, I started my first blog in 2005 and decided *quickly* to limit the number of people I shared the address with. I've always been anonymous (nobody wants a doocing...) but I invited a few real life people to read and suddenly found myself with a limited pallette... even now I wind up chastised here and there by a friend who doesn't want me to share so much of our last, tittilating conversation on my blog. The fact that it's ALL anonymous doesn't keep her from feeling ever-so-slightly violated...<BR/><BR/>Ever so slightly violated... ok, I guess we can go back to boobies and assholes now...reasonably prudent poethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04553993541841706695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-72148943658591179642009-02-04T13:19:00.000-05:002009-02-04T13:19:00.000-05:00I'm still stuck on boobies. This is where a nice ...I'm still stuck on boobies. This is where a nice Indian emo kid with exhibitionist tendencies would come in handy. I like a small, 20-something set with upturned nipples.Love Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09560398644345169431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-53272035077527393472009-02-04T12:28:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:28:00.000-05:00My whorish fiancee is also into asses. Just as muc...My whorish fiancee is also into asses. Just as much, if not more.Reverend Ghosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617171719225432871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-87180212181401300412009-02-04T12:19:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:19:00.000-05:00Perverts, both of you.Perverts, both of you.Reverend Ghosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617171719225432871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-63143919221451350782009-02-04T12:16:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:16:00.000-05:00BOOBIES!BOOBIES!Calamityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366654196535968445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-24627614099921491492009-02-04T12:09:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:09:00.000-05:00Cal, i love you for posting about trying to seduce...Cal, i love you for posting about trying to seduce your childhood friends. I find it very endearing. <BR/><BR/>Oh, and yeah, you put cleavage in front of me and I can´t look away, despite supposedly being a heterosexual.Bluestreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350399171607670916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-90303000899795283202009-02-04T12:00:00.000-05:002009-02-04T12:00:00.000-05:00I know. I need to be punished.I know. I need to be punished.Calamityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366654196535968445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-35765648388231746162009-02-04T11:45:00.000-05:002009-02-04T11:45:00.000-05:00Shame on you, Calamity.Shame on you, Calamity.Reverend Ghosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617171719225432871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-16527670615159449672009-02-04T11:43:00.000-05:002009-02-04T11:43:00.000-05:00I'm utterly shocked that no one jumped on the whol...I'm utterly shocked that no one jumped on the whole homosexual tendencies thing, that no one else decided to reveal their own "experimental phases." Why did you pick this day to get your minds out of the gutter?Calamityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366654196535968445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-90562674726353218002009-02-03T18:44:00.000-05:002009-02-03T18:44:00.000-05:00Very thoughtful review Cal, I'll have to check it ...Very thoughtful review Cal, I'll have to check it out.Miss Missiveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03184269685276049399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-14387069083576259252009-02-03T17:57:00.000-05:002009-02-03T17:57:00.000-05:00I meant to say that knowing what I'm saying might ...I meant to say that knowing what I'm saying might offend someone and saying it anyway is exciting to me. I realize that some of my words got jumbled there. Sorry for being so prolific. I tend to ramble : )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-42789517849135899722009-02-03T17:55:00.000-05:002009-02-03T17:55:00.000-05:00As far as anonymity, I guess in the blogging world...As far as anonymity, I guess in the blogging world it's normal to be anonymous. I'm not and I sometimes regret that. I don't so much censor myself. But I do limit my topics. I wouldn't talk negatively about specific people that I know are reading my blog. <BR/><BR/>I often wonder how people who write books handle the fall out of discussing real people and being honest about them. When people write books for publishing don't they usually use their real identities? Well I have lot of work to do on my writing, book deals aren't in my immediate future or anything remotely close to it, but I often think that blogging is practice for me in breaking down barriers, revealing myself warts and all to friends, etc. I mean my audience is mostly composed of friends and family. I only have a few new readers thanks to my recent commenting on this site. Self promotion is not my forte. How do people get an audience of strangers to read and comment on their work without having people they know refer them? That's rhetorical, mostly. I mean I don't expect anyone to answer. <BR/><BR/>And Love Bites, I completely agree that it IS easier to talk to strangers about our deepest darkest secrets. I think it's because there are no consequences to revealing them. We have the release of exposure without the risk. Does that make sense? In some ways, for me anyway, the risk is what's exciting. Knowing that what I'm <I>saying it anyway</I>. Oh and about Honey's blog - I think it's wonderful. Your review is spot on, in my humble little opinion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-66578242868616527182009-02-03T17:25:00.001-05:002009-02-03T17:25:00.001-05:00And it is really weird how I can tell my most int...And it is really weird how I can tell my most intimate secrets to strangers, but I can't tell them to my IRL friends or family. I wonder if this is precisely why postsecrets.com is such a huge hit.Love Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09560398644345169431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-66881724000269306442009-02-03T17:25:00.000-05:002009-02-03T17:25:00.000-05:00Flashing your dog is way more satisfying because t...Flashing your dog is way more satisfying because they cock their ears up and look impressed. Cats always have a sort of "meh" expression about nudity.<BR/><BR/>Re: anonymity, I always advise people to think about creating a private blog just for venting. I know that it helps my daily sanity to have just such a place where I can vent, with impugnity, about the fucked up people I encounter, my ex-husband, my sometimes not very demonstrative boyfriend, and suchlike.Love Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09560398644345169431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-58280120477607844542009-02-03T15:35:00.000-05:002009-02-03T15:35:00.000-05:00I flash my cat every morning.I flash my cat every morning.Reverend Ghosthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617171719225432871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-34048884764671532282009-02-03T14:47:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:47:00.000-05:00Thank you, Honey, for not giving us a craptastic s...Thank <I>you</I>, Honey, for not giving us a craptastic shit pile to review. It makes my day. <BR/><BR/>And I guess anonymity trumps again, in terms of letting it all hang out. I could make a crack about flashers, but I won't. Damn.Calamityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366654196535968445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-38221819629370138332009-02-03T14:42:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:42:00.000-05:00Thank you, Calamity! You've given me a lot to thin...Thank you, Calamity! You've given me a lot to think about. It is so hard to learn how to write about what's real without wrecking my relationships or causing drama. Sometimes I think I need to start writing in code or find a purely anonymous space I never tell anyone about. It sure would be nice to let go a little more, although my minimal boundaries make me feel safe, too.<BR/><BR/>I agree with Love Bites, I do not need to be posting entire community events. In a way, this has been my way of filler, since I've been struggling so much with the anonymity question and dramatic human relationships that for some reason always bring my blog into question. People are offended if I talk about them or if I don't talk about them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-65525995064394580352009-02-03T14:14:00.001-05:002009-02-03T14:14:00.001-05:00and yeah, I like Honey.and yeah, I like Honey.Rassleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12370070146085209687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-51411221735010286952009-02-03T14:14:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:14:00.000-05:00No, the worst (but in a good way) is when a friend...No, the worst (but in a good way) is when a friend reads your blog and calls to make sure you're okay because of something you wrote. Good friend, yes, but that's how self-censorship starts.Rassleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12370070146085209687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-11348321794391275022009-02-03T14:09:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:09:00.000-05:00What I hate, Blue, is when they don't comment. You...What I hate, Blue, is when they don't comment. You know they're out there reading but they don't say a word.Calamityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17366654196535968445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-30395487049053608442009-02-03T14:01:00.000-05:002009-02-03T14:01:00.000-05:00About time for a good review. Hey, I love reading...About time for a good review. Hey, I love reading the eloquent ass reamings around this joint, but I love it more when I find something I can add to my reader. <BR/><BR/>Regarding the anonymity and blogging, it does bite ya in the ass. I´ve allowed far too many people in my real life to come into my blog life and it´s weirdly annoying and violating knowing they read it. Especially annoying is the lack of reciprocity involved, because usually they have no blogs of their own to share which basically means I open myself up to a bunch of people in my life that don´t open themselves up to me. Not satisfying at all.Bluestreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07350399171607670916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-91998122263439836152009-02-03T13:56:00.000-05:002009-02-03T13:56:00.000-05:00Honey's blog is awesome. Props for asking to be e...Honey's blog is awesome. Props for asking to be evaluated.. I'm too chicken shit for that. LOLJessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10008082202091567251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28050624.post-24459788572449921972009-02-03T13:04:00.000-05:002009-02-03T13:04:00.000-05:00I liked this blog, too. There is a lot to be said...I liked this blog, too. There is a lot to be said for a clean white template, and I like the changing photos on the header.<BR/><BR/>I do wish Honey would stop posting the announcements for gay/lesbian community events, IN THEIR ENTIRETY, on her blog. A snippet and a link would seem, to me at least, to be sufficient.Love Biteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09560398644345169431noreply@blogger.com